Prior to this, the Argenziano/Uccio’s had lived in Staten Island for most of their time together, and had moved about a year prior to New Jersey. The children were enrolled in school, and they had already been assigned to and had seen new doctors in New Jersey.
Unbeknown to Mz. Uccio, (Me) this move was an attempt to isolate her from any family and or friends she had accumulated during the nearly 20 years they had been together. Mr. Argenziano, saw the marriage was coming to an end, and that Mz. Uccio was becoming stronger & stronger emotionally, and she was about to go out and get a job, to be able to support herself and her children, which meant, she was planning on leaving Mr. Argenziano and he knew it.
During the duration of their nearly 20 years togeter he would torment her relentlessly on daily basis, and because of Mz. Uccio’s then ignorance of how the psychopath mind works, she was caught up in his manipulation and guerrilla tactics over and over again throughout the nearly twenty years they were miserably married.
So, much so that Mr. Agrneziano refused to allow Mz. Uccio (Me) to get off the welfare system during her entire marriage to him, he would threaten her with homelessness, and would promise to have the children removed so that she would never see them ever again; which obviously was his plan right along whether I stayed on welfare & allowed the city to support him or not.
Ironically, I had gone to see my MD. The day before, and he decided that my stress levels were getting higher and higher, due to Mr. Argenziano not paying any child support and showing up at my home daily to harass me, and that he was going to strengthen my 5 mg valium (yellow) pill, to a 10 mg (blue) pill. That morning, Mr. Argenziano had come over at 7 AM when he knew I would still be asleep, and he walked in as if he owned the home, he did not, it was a rental. I jumped out of bed, and he told me that if I wanted my daughter’s medication I had to go with him to pick it up because he had forgotten it. I agreed to avoid an argument and my daughter and I got into the car with him, she sat in the back, I sat in the front. I had figured since I was already near the pharmacy and it was a good mile walk, I might as well ask him if I could pick up my medication on the way home. He agreed. I picked up my medication and put it into my purse. Shortly thereafter my daughter tossed her pill bottle at me, in a joking fashion and said, “Here ma, you hold these!” So, I placed them up on the top of the brown paper bag I received from the pharmacy, knowing how dangerous they were if the children had gotten hold of them, I kept them on the top shelf of the kitchen cabinet where they were not allowed to go, nor could they reach. I then forgot all about them in my purse. However since I kept my prescriptions in my own bathroom upstairs away from the children it didn’t matter, I knew then were all safe.
Mr. Argenziano refused to leave at any point that day, and every call to the police was ignored, I was helpless to get him out of my home, unless using bodily force myself.
When I was done giving the children a bath & putting them to sleep, I once again told him he must leave! It was then that he began harassing me even further, refusing to leave. I reached into my purse, and grabbed the first bottle of pills that I touched and opened them, because I was in my bedroom at the computer and my eyeglasses were on my bed and that’s where Mr. Argenziano was laying. The first bottle of pills I had taken out appeared to be a mistake, I had thought that my doctor didn’t change my 5 mg valium to 10 mg valium because they were still yellow, and I took two instead of one, and then abruptly closed the bottle and tried to put it back into the brown bag I had just taken it from- something wasn’t right- it didn’t fit properly.
It was like a giant AH-Ha yet panic filled moment, I remembered that much earlier that morning, my daughter has tossed her Vasotec into the front seat, and I put her bottle on top on my prescription bag, and perhaps I forgot to put her pills where they belonged because of the insanity Mr. Argenziano was putting me through that day, so I jumped off the computer chair and without a care that he was laying on my bed, I jumped onto my bed to retrieve my glasses so I could read the prescription and sure enuff it was my daughters Vasotec! My doctor had in fact given me the higher 10 mg (blue) valium pill; I just didn’t look, because of the stress & confusion.
Realizing Vasotec was to lower blood pressure, and knowing my blood pressure was normally 90/60, I went into a panic, I had taken 2 of my daughters 2.5 mg Vasotec instead of 2 of my own 5 mg valium both yellow pills, I began frantically calling pharmacies, which Mr. Agrenziano sat right next to me listening to every word. He was well aware of the mix-up in medication; and how frantic it had me.
I finally reached a pharmacy that was still open, although it was not my pharmacist and told him of what I may have done, because wasn’t sure at this point!
I was told by the pharmacist unfamiliar with my normal blood pressure of 90/60, that if I began to feel dizzy or sluggish to get myself to an ER as soon as possible.
I then demanded Mr. Arennziano leave, and went to bed.
At some point between that phone call and the following day, I needed to be rushed by ambulance to the nearest ER. I was hospitalized, my blood pressure had bottomed out, and I was near death. I was found by my mother and a best friend, one of which has called my ex-husband who then took it up on himself to use the accidental mix in medication to make it appear that I had attempted suicide. Little to my knowledge, until nearly a week later when Mr. Agrneziano insisted on visiting me every day in the hospital and telling me who I was allowed to associate with, and whom I wasn’t all owed to associate with. On the sixth day when he showed up and I was interacting with a co patient he had forbade me to speak to, he left and called child services, and claimed I attempted suicide.
I was supposed to leave that Friday; instead the following day, Mr. Argenziano coincidentally showed up with an ACS worker who didn’t bother doing one drop of research although my chart was a minimum of 10 feet from the room we were in.
Instead she had decided, (or was this pre-planned- this is the question I ask to be answered), I was found guilty- BY ACS ALONE- of an attempted suicide, although my release records DISAGREE with that diagnosis and state that I was severely depressed (Wouldn’t you be- without your children for nearly 2 weeks and your abuser whom you had left months ago, dictating daily whom you were and were not allowed to associate with?)
I was kept an additional week, because the staff all knew that when Mr. Argenziano showed up at the EXACT SAME TIME WITH THE ACS CASE WORKER, and they brought me into a closed office, without an attorney on my side, or anyone else to represent me on my behalf, and it was then & there that I was labeled a dangerous drug addict and manipulated into sign away any & all of my parental rights to my children without my knowledge because with a sixth grade education I had no idea what I was reading, nor was I able to fake my way through it, I had no glasses with me at the time. I was simply told that I was signing a paper stating that it was ok for my children to stay with my ex while I was hospitalized because of my Order of Protection; and being the then ignorant Co-Dependent that I was, I believed them, and I signed it. I’m positive they were told to either look the other way, or to let it be, because of who was pulling the strings behind the scenes! Otherwise, I’ve read, no one is put in that situation, of signing legal paper work without an attorney present!
Mz. Uccio (Me) had no idea that the PANNEPINTO CONNECTIONS REACHED AS FAR AS NEW JERSEY AND NOW SHE BELIEVES AS FAR AS PEENNSYLVANIA, because in 2003, when she tried to go to court in New Jersey, she was told that the child support portion only was going to be transferred to New York, because at the time that’s where the children were residing with Mr. Agrenziano, (The [il]legal kidnapping has already happened, I just wasn’t aware of it) and Mz. Uccio was told that it could take up to a year to process the paperwork, so she would just have to wait it out. As was the plan to fraudulently make Mr. Aregnziano’s 40k owned to Mz Uccio (me) disappear behind closed doors, while the fraudulent presented paper work for the record claimed I was present and agreed. Which was impossible because the day they chose to have my child support disappear I happened to be on a time sheet working for 16 hours and there was no signatures anywhere on these fraudulent documents.
Looking back, I now see how I was manipulated into signing away my rights to my children while I was in a psych unit, on lithium & other brain numbing medications without the advantage of an attorney present. And every ounce of this non modification of Child Custody Orders INTERSTATE OFF A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ORDER NO LESS.. as the law states is mandatory, along with any modification of Child Support Orders which the law also states is mandatory was all a pre-planned fraud, which had the added bonus of the Title IV federal funding money coming in behind it.. Oh what a joke they make of the entire system, didn’t they?
I would then spend the next six years in court proceedings, after court proceedings, begging for my children back, or to at the very least to least see them, with court appointed attorneys, after court appointed attorneys, (Imagine being sent into war believing the person they sent you to war with was there to protect you, only to find them shooting you in the back of the head every time you weren’t looking)!
Instead of getting any justice, or even a resemblance of justice or any one of my or my children’s human rights being protected we were thrown to the wolves, time and again and again, and again.. without one trial, without one fair hearing, without one drug test. This barbaric behavior went on for nearly 9 years; while Mr. Argenziano had all of this time to tell my babies; the reason’s I woke up every day, my loves of my life, my children, that their own mother didn’t want them! Meanwhile, I was blatantly lied to my face, and threated that the magistrate believed my husband that I was a drug addict, even though they refused to order me to go for a drug testing, I was told the ONLY WAY I WOLD EVER SEE MY CHILDREN AGAIN WAS IF I AGREED TO GIVE HIM CUSTODY OF THEM. Even though I had brought in my own 100% negative hair drug test, it would be left off the record and make no difference in the threats & intimidation!
Can you only imagine the emotional damage this non-human did to my emotional health & that of my babies babies?
This was all in an effort so that he did not have to pay one dollar for the children’s pre-natal care, or hospital birth or even the formula and or food they ate while Mz. Uccio, was beaten down emotionally & physically to shut her mouth & just comply and hand over every dollar to him, OR ESLE! Petrified I complied, because prior to my leaving him for good, my Argenziano had pushed me backwards through a glass dining room table severing my shoulder, inches from my carotid artery!
Mr. Argenziano, was offered numerous times in which to have an attorney present to defend any allegations against him in which he felt were false. He was also offered an opportunity to restage the entire situation starting from beginning to end, using one of the court bailiffs as a fill in for Mz. Uccio. Mr. Argenziano failed horribly in his reenactment when offered an opportunity to prove this his role was an innocent role when showing the Judge (using a court officer) how he pushed the plaintiff Mz. Uccio backwards throughout one level of the home as she retreated to protect herself from harm, leading her backing up onto a flimsy dining room chair which collapsed with her being pushed against it bearing his weight onto of her, and it crashed into a glass dining room table, shattering the entire table as the chair fell to the floor with the glass being pushed under the weight of the chair against Mz. Uccio’s back & shoulder, slicing her inches from her carotid artery on the right side of her neck, severing her shoulder blade instead, needing numerous stiches to close it up and stop the bleeding.
I New York would have followed the law, a Modified Child Custody & Support Order would have been the way to over-turn an already won Child Custody & Support case by Ms. Uccio in a sister state “New Jersey” Via an Order of Protection in its Final Hearing.
However, the Uccio children were fraudulently [il]legally kidnapped via Mr. Argenziano’s , Political connections to the PANEPINTO’S and the Governments abuse of power and Domestic Violence by proxy of myself and my children! I too have a Petition in with the Intra American Commission on Human Rights. Due to the above atrocities!
Additionally, I have a case against the City of New York ACS wherein there was not one day worth of investigation, while I was no less than 10 feet from the nurses’ station where there were numerous records of my blood levels, my blood pressure levels, any and all drugs in my system (which were not one that was abusive, yes there were two vasotec which were ingested accidentally, and not one which proved I was anything but an expletory parent, who made a legit mistake, and for that Mr. Agrenziano and his crew of politically corrupt bullies were able to [il];egallly kidnap my children!
God help New York State & our Government because of the viral blast I’ll put it on, if God forbid anything happens to anyone of my children before they are fully healed from this trauma, which they are being put through by Mr. Argenziano, the Panepintos, New York State as well as the United States Government!